Don't Believe The Hype!

Whew chile....... .so you just finished scrolling Instagram and you see beautiful pictures of people vacationing, eating brunch, drinking wine flights and making millions of dollars from their business all up and down your timeline and you think to yourself "damn my life is wack"! Not you? Oh ok, well i'm not afraid to admit this has been me at some point and many others but, sis don't believe the hype!

If you haven't figured out by now, social media allows you to be anybody you want to be and show only portions of your life. Most people show you the good but, it's plenty of people on there that are not living the life they show you on a daily basis. It's some folks whose relationships are a hot mess, friendships are a hot mess, business struggling and 2 seconds away from losing their job because they were late yet again from making a Tik Tok video (haha I couldn't resist). Social media will have folk depressed and thinking they are doing something wrong in life, but i'm here to tell you...STOP IT!! Sunshine, you are exactly where God wants you to be.

Listen......yes, some of those people are faking the funk and some of those folks, well let's be honest...they worked their tails off to stunt but you just didn't have the pleasure of seeing that part of their life. This is why we have to stop comparing our lives to other people. You are doing yourself a disservice by comparing. Things happen when they are suppose to happen and while i'm being honest, some of you are not where you want to be because you refuse to put in the necessary work. I will even call myself out on this one, I have several areas in business I need improvement on and the biggest thing is consistency and time management. I'm weeks behind on the blog but I said you know what, it's ok i'm posting it on a Wednesday and not a Monday as long as I commit to getting it done once a week, no matter the day. These are the type of things that's going to push us forward.

You have got to put in the work sis! Ain't no other way around it unless you hit the powerball tonight and everything I said goes in one ear and out the other. Lol! No but seriously, quit letting social media make you feel like your life sucks and make up in your mind YOU are going to get up and start creating the life you deserve.

PERIOD!!!!!

With Much Love and Motivation, 

Kesha